Article updated 2018
Our intention to stay connected to a man in an argument is worth gold.
Our intention to hold on to resentment and the need to be right in an argument is worth nothing.
Anyone of us can live our lives from the place of needing to be right. And many of us do. It is a terribly mediocre existence, though, because it is never ending – so the pattern of needing to be right will continue as long as you exhaust yourself trying to be right. It is a doomed cycle and it is the path you need to take if you prefer to be an underachiever.
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Now to communicating with an angry man.
If he is severely abusive, and you are in enough pain from it, then you need to get out of there and be alone for a while to reflect on the patterns that you both run that causes the severe abuse between you two.
IF however, your man is an…