If you want an Alpha Man in your life – and most of my clients who are Alpha Women always tell me they do – what I’m going to share with you today is important information you’ll want to know and remember.
At work, my client, Elizabeth is an Alpha Female.
She’s good at what she does and knows how to get a job done quickly and efficiently.
But in her private life, she’s unable to flip the switch back to her feminine side.
What happens is that her Alpha characteristics of telling men what to do and how to do it starts showing up in her dating life.
Nothing pushes a man away faster than a woman who sounds like his mother once did when she told him what to do in his teens!
I shared 4 Simple Words with Elizabeth that would change her life with men forever if she used them.
Elizabeth wasn’t ready to practice these 4 simple words just yet in a dating situation.
Instead, she decided to try them out with the men at work figuring she had nothing to lose.
She had a meeting scheduled with the CEO of a major corporation.
In the past, she’d have come into the meeting much like a bull in a china shop.
She’d have pushed and pushed until he either relented and signed on the dotted line or he firmly told her no way.
This time Elizabeth decided she’d take a more feminine approach and use those 4 simple words…. I NEED YOUR HELP to get his co-operation.
Alpha men whether its business or pleasure want to make women feel safe and protected.
Most women compete with men like Elizabeth did with orders and pushing which makes it really hard for a man to step up and meet your needs.
Instead, you want to know how to trigger the hero’s response in him to make this happen.
Elizabeth consciously made a decision to wear softer feminine business clothing to this meeting versus her usual black suit which screamed ALPHA FEMALE.
She took a breath and slowed herself down as she walked into the meeting.
She shook the CEO’s hand and instead of shoving papers in his face, she triggered his hero response by using the 4 magic words…I need your help.
She was astonished by what happened next.
He stepped up and within 5 minutes the deal was sealed.
They spent the next hour talking and at the end of their meeting, he told her to call on him anytime. He’d be happy to help her.
Elizabeth witnessed what every woman witnesses when she consciously flips the switch to her feminine side… Men stepping over themselves to help her.
You can have this in your life too.
Your feminine side is about giving less, learning to ask for help when you need it and allowing yourself to receive from men with gratitude and appreciation.
When you do, men will feel like you get them and they’ll want to connect with you on that emotional level they crave with a woman.
Is 2020 your year to go from being alone and single to having the best relationship with a wonderful man?
I have 3 spots in my Love after 50 group that can help make this dream come true for you.
If you’re ready to find love this year, let’s set up a time to chat to see if this group is a fit for you.
To get started, CLICK HERE.
We’ll ask you a couple of extra quick questions so we can learn more about you and what is going on in your dating life. Following that, if I think I can help you, we’ll get a date and time booked so we can chat.
And if you’re wondering can a group help you find love?
Yes, you can! Lenore did and I wanted to share this with you hoping it will inspire and motivate you to go after your dream this year.
Ladies, there are good guys out there. I found the best!!! It’s official, Steve and I now have a home together. BTW . . . you can find love in your 60’s. I did with an amazing man who loves, adores and cherishes me!!!!! Biggest thanks to Lisa Copeland for her amazing guidance in her Love after 50 Group! Lenore, New York
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